Prevent regular problems of the woman from Ukraine with adaptation and homesickness
Being far away from home always makes people slightly sick and sad. Especially if such a person has never left his or her country because it is a great stress to be involved in something you have no idea about. Undoubtedly the modern European countries are not that bad to shock the people from Ukraine however still it is different cultures and languages so everyone will need some time to get accustomed to the new reality. How to reduce that period of accommodation and is it possible to avoid it?
Unfortunately everyone will suffer a little from the change of the place of living. We do it even if we move out our mother city to another one in the exact country. That is why the boyfriend has to be understanding and provide his girlfriend from Ukraine all things she needs. At first weeks in the new country she will need most of all his presence nearby so if you have an opportunity to take several days off after you arrive at your state then you have to do it. She knows nobody in the country so she needs someone to show all the surroundings because it is hard to explore the new world alone. You have to be with her all the time till she finds some friends or at least she will meet neighbors.
If you have no time for small vacation then you can take with her in the country members of her family or her friends. They will help her to get accustomed to the new reality faster and at the same time presence of familiar faces will remind her home. That is why the boundary between her Ukraine and the new state will disappear faster because there will be the mixture of memories in her mind so she stops denying the new conditions.
One more way to help her to adapt faster is to buy her several weeks at the language school. When you know the local language it is much easier to find friends and to understand what is going on around you. Moreover she might find friends right at these courses because there are a lot of people who are from the different parts of the world so she will have something in common with these guys. That is why they might exchange the experience how they survive that homesickness and together they will find the solution to that heart pain much faster.
If she speaks already good language then she might go for other hobbies. If she likes doing something extraordinary she might go for the pottery. It will occupy her for 2-3 hours a day so she will have not much time to think a lot about her sorrows and Ukraine. She needs to do something because when the one is occupied with hobby or job she does not notice how that period of adaptation occurs so it is much less painful.
Unfortunately it is impossible to change the country absolutely without cultural shock and homesickness. At first even the strongest girl in the world will suffer a little from the new conditions but if you help her to get accustomed to the new country then the adaptation will go faster. The key to success is either to be with her all the first time or occupy her because the girl at work will simply not notice how a half a year has passed and so she will feel herself as a part of her new state.